In
seminary, we future pastors were warned about becoming too identified
with our roles, so that our whole identity becomes wrapped in our
religious work. The temptation is strong, since the pastorate is seen as
holy work. But as any pastor will tell you, the pastorate also fails to
deliver on “identity, transcendence, and community.” Churches are human
institutions and when it comes to these supposed deliverables, they’ll
let you down time and again, as do businesses and nonprofits. I’d have
to write a novel to explain how that is so, but believe me, it is so (as
well as why nonetheless committing oneself to a church as a pastor or a
member is still crucial to one’s spiritual welfare). Thus, even pastors
need to ground their identity first in Christ and in the various
callings on their lives—husband, father, neighbor, and so forth—to
retain a healthy relationship to their work.
Workism,
of course, has been a temptation for men in particular for a couple of
centuries now, as they have been socialized to find their identity in
their work and career. “I’m a Ford man” or “I’m an engineer” and
whatever. This has been also failing them for two centuries. I think it
ironic that the last few decades women have been envying men in their
careers—and have started on the same futile path of self-fulfillment in
work. As many have discovered, it’s nice to have a career and put bread
on the table, but it’s still called work for a reason. Women
have one benefit over men in this regard: At some point, they may want
to have children, and when that happens, it becomes immediately apparent
the relative unimportance of a career compared to raising of children
and nurturing the many relationships in one’s life. Men don’t have that
built-in biological clock and can sometimes go decades before they get
wise.
A New Boss!
Speaking
of careers, Tim Dalrymple will be starting a new one on May 1, as the
new president and CEO of Christianity Today. He was unanimously approved
by our board last week. I’ve known Tim for about a decade now, and it’s
scary how talented he is. I look forward to his leadership at CT. You
should too.
Read more about him here.
It’s Come to This in Some Places
Here
is a poignant article about a school teacher in the Midwest who has
been taking weapons training to prevent or short-circuit a school
shooting.
My
district’s school board struggled with the decision. After the Newtown
shooting, parents came to board meetings demanding to know how the
district would protect their children; locked doors and security cameras
no longer allayed their fears. It was easy to see that in recent school
shootings, similar safety measures had proven ineffective. …
In
his navy suit, [the Buckeye Firearms Association] expert emphasized
that it was a district decision and that we needed to do what was best
for our students—even as his tone betrayed his conviction that every
school in Ohio should have armed staff. He offered polished, if often
unrelated, responses to the board’s questions: “It takes rural police an
average of fifteen to twenty-two minutes to respond,” “Most school
shootings last less than five minutes,” “Newtown was over in three.”
The Christian Queen
My wife and I have been watching
The Crown, and
I have been intrigued by how the directors/writers have accented Queen
Elizabeth II’s faith. She is shown regularly praying on her knees before
she gets into bed, and an entire episode (with a couple of
conversations with Billy Graham no less) revolves around Jesus’ command
to forgive. I’ve not heard anything about that dimension of her life,
but then I’ve not been much interested in news of the royal family. At
any rate, her faith appears to be genuine
and is becoming more pronounced in the last few years.
Grace and peace,
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